by owenlucas | Sep 21, 2024 | Blog Posts
C hristmas came and went and honestly, I remember very little about it. By Christmas Day I had known about his affair for 17 days. There must’ve been some happy moments that day but who knows. There is a photo of our daughter opening her presents and she looks very...
by owenlucas | Sep 2, 2024 | Blog Posts
So, after a hellishly sleepless and panicky night, knowing my husband was sleeping with his mistress, and one of my best friend’s had suggested we go to the guest house where D was staying so we could give him a ‘rum old hiding’ the next day started with trepidation...
by Freida Hymn | Aug 23, 2024 | Blog Posts
T he very worst thing that could happen, did happen… I suspect you’ve guessed already what I’m about to say, because only someone as naive as me would still want to believe in the fairy tale that was(n’t) out marriage… He went back to...
by Freida Hymn | Jul 29, 2024 | Blog Posts
New York may have been another guilt purchase (as you can see, I am sceptical about everything these days and D recently accused me of demonising him and changing the narrative of our happy, loving marriage. Errrrr – no sh*t), but a couple of months before I found...
by Freida Hymn | Jul 21, 2024 | Blog Posts
I had never really heard anyone talk about the pain of heartache before. I knew it hurt like hell, but this was something else. Not in a million did I think it would be as bad as how this actually feels. It’s indescribable. I had never been dumped before, and the...
by Freida Hymn | Jul 15, 2024 | Blog Posts
A t the advice of my father in law, we left the house and went for an epic dog walk. The idea was to chat openly and with complete honesty, leaving no stone left unturned. Talk and talk until there was nothing left to say. And that is what we did. It was intense and...
